"The dragonfly is symbol of renewal, positive force and the power of life in general; also a symbol of the sense of self that comes with maturity, a creature of the wind, it represents change. And as a dragonfly lives a short life, it knows it must live its life to the fullest"
Initially my blog was about my kayaking adventures - but I have decided to include other events, photos, and day to day activities and thoughts at times. A "Bunch" of stuff. Glad you're here. Your comments are welcome.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Cooler Days

Wednesday, August 25, 2010:

Finally, it seems like the hottest days may be gone, I surely hope so. It has been to muggy and hot for me to go kayaking. I am looking forward to the fall and may even try kayaking when it's cold. We'll see.

A little over a week - next camping trip. I extended the reservation, since I realized that that weekend is a holiday. Put in for time off of work, so now we have four days. It will be a new experience because I am going to take Sadie and Sunshine. The rules of the lake do not allow them in the cabin, so I'm going to take a tent and, more than likely I will end up sleeping with them at night - I hope it is for sure cool then!

It will also be a challenge to see how I'm going to pack my Matrix for a four-day camping trip, two tents, two dogs, the items Renee' packs, and my kayak in my car. I hope I remember to take a picture - it may make the Guinness book of records, or for sure Ripley's believe it or not!

In the meantime, I've been working on my rug hooking and locker hooking projects. I also had to put together a cubicle-cabinet and put it on top of my homemade bookshelf to hold my hooking fabric. After seeing the progress of this, I think might just be able to fit everything in my car.


(Pretty good forecast according to weather.com) I hope this is true, good weather for grilling, kayaking, and sleeping with dogs in a tent!

Updated forecast:

Forecast ..............................(Forecast) Also hurricane Earl may cause rain!!!
8/25/10................................. 8/29/10

Fri 3 Hi 89°F Lo 65°F......... (92-68)
Sat 4 Hi 83°F Lo 60°F........ (92-66)
Sun 5 Hi 83°F Lo 60°F...... (86-65)
Mon 6 Hi 83°F Lo 59°F..... (86-66)


Til next time/ Bunch

Sunday, August 15, 2010

The library

Sunday, 8/15/10:
I can't believe I just erased the photos from my camera before I totally transferred them!!!!!
Anyway, I won't let it ruin my day for my memories.

Sharon had called me yesterday and said she might go kayaking and I told her I would wait and see if I was in the mood when I woke up. You know how it is, you wake up, wanting to go back to bed, feeling lazy and all. Well, after coffee and giving it some thought - the dragonfly theory of life, I texted her. "up? kayak?"

My phone rang a little later. (She had texted me but I had not heard the phone beep). We both decided to get over our lazy selves and go kayaking, just to read our books and relax. We would meet at 8:00. I got there a few minutes before the gate opened, soon Sharon came and by 8:20 we were on Crabtree Lake. Sharon had her e-reader (not sure what it's called), and I had my audiobook, listening to a book by Sidney Sheldon. We paddled and floated and paddled and floated. It was a perfect morning, overcast, smooth water but just enough current to keep you floating gently.

We left the lake around 11:00. I went by Sharon's house to see her newly painted kitchen - she should have been a interior designer/decorator - it looks perfect.

I really hate I messed up on the photos. I had taken Sharon's picture on her kayak engrossed in her book, just floating on the lake. I'll get another one next time.

Now, Renee' and I are headed over to mom and dad's for our usual pizza-milkshake Sunday!

later/Bunch

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Camping 8/7-8/10 - A Sign

August 7-8, 2010


The stay at the cabin was very relaxing and uneventful - but the pre-cabin time was no such thing. I kept my journal updated several times during this weekend, so I will insert those entries and, of course, make any comments along the way that come to mind.

Before I start the story, I need to tell you a little background info: At our previous visit a couple of weeks ago, the person in #4 (you remember, the man who parked his boat in our way, but also got us the can-opener) - well, he had mentioned that they had arrived early that morning. Short story here: I checked it out and found that if the cabin was vacant you could arrive when the gate opens to start your stay, and that they weren't particularly strict about check out times. This was great news, we could spend a longer day for the same amount of money.

So, now to continue with the story:


Journal:

"Sat Aug 7:

Last night I packed the car, all but the cooler. Went to Wal-Mart and bought another cooler, bigger and better. They didn't have any life vests for Renee. Then I went to Kings to get the last minute food items. I wasn't feeling too good, guess all this heat and high humidity was getting to me, so I went to bed before dark.


Sat a.m. - got up about 4:00. Jeff had left me a "have a good time" message on my cell phone. I drank some coffee, then packed the cooler - got everything ready. Renee' got up and dressed and we were off by 7 a.m. In Roxboro, Renee' treated us to breakfast at Biscuitville, bacon/egg/cheese biscuit with hashbrown and OJ.


We stopped at Neal's store near the road to the park to get ice for the cooler. The cooler wouldn't hold both bags, so I sat one on top of the cooler and figured I would re-organize things when I got to the cabin.


At the park, I drove to the cabin area to see if the cabin was occupied. No one was in sight, only a car parked in front of #4, otherwise the place was empty. Great, I thought, so we went to the office to get the key. The man in the office, a park ranger maybe, "Charles" said that they people in our cabin had not checked out. I asked him if he had another one available - no, they were all booked, he said. So, I sent text messages to Sharon, Marilyn and Barbara informing them that we could not check-in until 3:00.


Needless to say, I was very very disappointed. Go back home? No other real choice. Renee' and I didn't want to sit in the car for 6-7 hours, and Renee' would not want to even sit and watch me fish (wasn't in the mood anyway). We went by the bathroom (across from the cabin) before we started home. Still no sight of anyone, there were two bags of garbage sitting outside near the walkway. I was getting more frustrated. So, I called "Charles" back and asked him if he was sure he had checked #5. He said yes. I told him it was empty. He said "I have no key." I suggested that they may have left it in the cabin. He said, no, but he would do some more checking and asked me for my phone number. (Should I wait 6 hours for him to call? One thing for sure - those cabins had better be fully occupied this afternoon - I was thinking).


So Renee' and I started back home. We stopped at the Walmart in Roxboro - no life vests, but got Renee' a couple of pants and tops - more camping clothes. When we got to Durham, we stopped by the swings near my brother's house because Renee' said she would like to do that and poor baby - this was her Saturday "sleeping" day, and I had dragged her out of bed at dawn, drove her all over the country side, the least I could do was let her enjoy swinging. She was handling everything like the camping princess she is! (better than me, for sure).

I've got enough food packed for lunch and supper and breakfast for the whole family - hope somebody shows up to help me eat it. Back home for a few hours, then we'll go back. From now on I will definitely call first and NOT speak to "Charles".

Since checkout is at 1 p.m., I decided to go back to the cabin at that time. About 5 or so miles down the road, Renee' asked me if I had packed coffee - it hit me - oh no - I forgot to turn off the coffee maker at home - - - so - - - I turned around, went home, cut off the coffee pot. When I got back to the car, Renee' said "here we go again, three times". I said, "yeah, maybe we'll make it this time, sweetie." - and we did. I was beginning to wonder if all this was a "sign" - like - stay at home!?! I was rolling over in my minds things I could say to "Charles", but when we arrived, a young guy was there and I just asked for the key and he just gave it to me and that was that. I sent another text message saying that "we are here".


Journal:

Sat 3:00 p.m.

Finally! What a day! But, sitting outside in the shade, slight breeze and lower humidity makes all the frustration of this day worth it. Renee' is sitting with me, drinking her hot chocolate. We talked about who might come to see us. Sharon will be in a little bit, and maybe Barbara, my friend. I have enough food for a family reunion! Maybe I'll learn one of these days; I always cook too much or prepare too much. Maybe Sharon and I will munch all night and play games.


I still feel dizzy or lightheaded. It would be really bad to be sick when life is so good. But I won't think about that. Looks like all the cabins are empty - so that man at the office could have given us another one - get over it Deb, I though. Have you forgot about the flow? ! Marilyn sent me a couple of texts reminding me to enjoy and relax. I'll rest now and enjoy the nature and quiet around me.


Journal

Sun. 7:15 a.m.
After playing games last night until about 1 a.m., I slept late this morning, and like a rock. H'm having my first cup of coffee. It's so quiet and, yes, all the cabins are still vacant except I believe someone came to cabin #1!


Yesterday afternoon, Sharon Kayaked for a very long distance - to the bridge and back. While she was out, Barb drove up as I was starting the charcoal - yes, me - starting charcoal. It worked!










The chicken breasts were very good. I fried some sliced potatoes - yum! and baked beans (of course opened with my own can opener that I remembered to bring this time). I also fried a few hotdogs. Sharon went to the store and got ice and diet cokes while supper was cooking.




We all enjoyed the food. I have to say I'm turning out to be a pretty good cook on the charcoal grill. You see, I brought my own, the one with the lid which I think cooks better, all the heat doesn't escape into the air.




Renee' took photos!














Barb had to leave before the gate was locked. She wrote an entry in my journal, and left us with a watermelon, peaches and cherries. I think I'll cut up the peaches for our breakfast. But for now, I'm finishing my coffee and cigarette while Sharon and Renee are still sleeping ...and keep writing.


Renee' is drying the dishes. She loves doing her "jobs".








Sharon and I were sitting outside. Sharon said, "look at that bird, ma, or is it a chicken?" - I turned around, and from what I could tell, it looked like a hawk. So I took about six pictures, all the while trying to get closer. I have no idea what happened but the camera messed up (not me, I'm sure!). Anyway, - for the memory - this is a picture of a hawk, maybe a red tail hawk on the ground at cabin #4.



Last night while playing games, we at cherries, pistachios, and brat sausages. I'll record the game scores in my blog because I kept score in this journal. We played dominoes (Bendominoes, the curved kind) regular and all 5's, then rummy, then tried a version of spades called setback which I had played when I was about 16 - and I thought I could remember the rules? ha! Then Sharon creamed me in backgammon. !!! (everybody does, for that matter)











Renee' made Sharon and I a cup of coffee while we played games.







I was going back in the cabin and on the screen door there was a dragonfly! I reached out and took him gently by the tail, I wanted a closer look. He immediately curled his little self around and tried to bite me. I let go really quickly and he dived-bombed to the porch. "Oh no" I thought, "is he dead? Is that a sign?" I reached down to touch him and he flew away. - Umh - I'll have to think on that - but I'm glad he is alive! and me too!


Sun 10:00 a.m.

Breakfast: sausage (handrolled, won't say what the pieces looked like and I'm leaving out the picture), eggs, overly-cooked hashbrowns, tomato slices, peaches - really good - but from now on I'll stick to grits or handcut potato fries. The hashbrowns were not good at all. You know how you cook cookies until they "look" done and then they crumble? Well, that's what happened to the hashbrowns.













Um-um good. Peaches were just right, sweet, juicy. Thanks Barb!








It's a bit early for Renee', but she has adapted really well to this ourdoor adventure routine.











Sharon took her book-reader and accompanied Renee' to the bathroom. I've washed up the dishes. Now I think I'll sit back with my coffee and cigs and read a little "Mystic Grits". I don't wanna go home!











When Sharon and Renee' returned, they each brought me a wildflower, hugs and kisses.
That's the best of life!





Life is so good!




Sun. noon-2:00

We packed up and swept the cabin.

When I turned in the key to the young guy at the office, I asked him that if a cabin is not occupied are you allowed to check in early - "yes".

Also, if not and another cabin is available could you be switched - "yes".

So, I made a verbal complaint about "Charles" who had done neither of these.

I had looked at cabin #1 while we were visiting, and decided I didn't like it. So I told the office guy that I wanted to cancel my reservation for the 21st. He said it was a policy to have a 14-days notice - DUH!!! I looked at the clock on the wall and said, "could you make a 13 hour exception to that policy?" He finally answered, "yes".

We got home about 2:00, unpacked the car except for the permanent camping supplies which has just about filled my car!!! Now I need a bigger house AND a bigger car!!

Come again. /Deb
P.S. - about the dragonfly "sign" - I interpret that to mean: try to ruin my day, I will get right back up and fly! and we did!!
One more note: Turns out the lightheaded/dizzy stuff - today (Monday) I have sinus symptoms and a headache. Didn't want anybody to worry.

Friday, August 6, 2010

Coming Up

Friday 8/6/10: It is so hard to work when you want to be having fun, like hooking a rug, camping, etc. Tonight I will get the last minute food items for our camping trip this weekend. I already have the stand-by of hotdogs, just need buns and onions. I'm going to take my little grill that has a lid on it because I think I do the best cooking on it. Instead of wings, I am going to get some chicken breasts to grill. Also, I have my small cast iron frying pan and plan to fry some cut-up potatoes, to go with the chicken and baked beans (got the can opener this time). Every time I think about cereal for breakfast, but you know breakfast is my favorite meal, especially when camping. So, I'll take some brat sausages for the grill, and fry some eggs on the Coleman, oh yes, and grits per Renee's request.

Looking forward to great time. /Deb

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Camping - a get together

Friday 7/23/10 through Sunday 7/25/10 - What a get together this turned out to be!


I was off work on Friday, so I got the last minute items ready for the camping weekend. Went to King's to get the hotdogs, chicken wings and other things we needed. After I got the grub, and had packed the car, except for the cooler, I had some time, so I worked on my rug hooking a little. I remembered that I had forgot to buy the buns for the hotdogs and hamburgers, so I went back to Kings. I'm glad it's only a couple of miles from my house. Sharon had also left work earlier than planned, so she and Jessica got to the house about 2:00. She drove her truck so she could transport her new kayak.


After we checked in at the park office, the first thing we did when we got to the cabin was decide who gets which bunk. Renee got first choice, then "toes" Jessica. After that was decided, we unpacked the cars and got everything organized on the extra bunk we used as our counter top. During the stay, Jessica changed her mind about the bunk, the first one was above me and was questionable, so she picked the one above her mom, that was too hot and close to the light bulb, then the top one above the AC was too close to ceiling or something. So, we took the stuff off the lower bunk near the AC and she had a good night's sleep.

We made sandwiches for lunch, while the AC was cooling down the cabin. Jessica is stuffing down some of her rice krispy/marshmellow treats she fixed just for the camping trip. (Delicious Jess, thanks!!)




After lunch, Sharon and Jessica took their kayak out. The water was very calm. The people in cabin #4 next to us had their motor boat tied up at the small landing spot, so I asked them if they could tie it over just to give us room to launch our kayaks. The man was nice and later that day tied his boat over a bit, but it was still not good enough, so we found a little space further down to enter the water.


Renee' watching Sharon and Jessica in the kayak, and laughing.

Later that afternoon, Sharon and Jessica and I started a game of stitchopoly, during which we took several breaks. Renee' said she didn't want to play a game with us. I really don't like monopoly, but the "stitching" words made it a little more interesting to me.
We cooked hotdogs on the griddle on the Coleman stove, cut up onions, set the picnic table, and then I discovered I had baked beans that I could not open, so I went and asked the man in #4 if they had one we could borrow. He said he only lived a few miles from there and was going home to feed his dogs and would bring us back one - like I said a nice man. (I still think he should not have docked his boat where he did, but we made it, really - doesn't there have to be one little thing that isn't quite right??)
It was almost dark when we finished our supper, the crickets and night creatures were chirping, the breeze was just right and the moon was huge, giving enough light to see the water glistening.

Everybody made their way to and from the facilities,
We finished our game. I lost, went bankrupt, had to mortgage my property, give it to Sharon, and I believe Sharon was the winner. (Leave a comment if I'm wrong Jessica and Sharon).
Renee' brought her bear, the one Aunt Nancy gave her. Jessica had brought her bear to sleep with also. I said, "Oh no, I forgot to bring my little lamb" and you can guess, Renee' let me sleep with her bear. (The second night, she slept with it.)
We were in our bunks by 12:30. Nobody could go to sleep, it was like a slumber party. Jessica thought she saw something crawling on Sharon's covers - of course the lights came on, a search was made, nothing found, but then we were really not sleepy. Renee' and Sharon read by a night light, and after a few "goodnight John Boys" we were off to dream land, at least I was!


Sharon was able to take this picture - a yellow butterfly which, like my dragonfly, is their kayaking symbol. There were two on the bush, while Jessica was kayaking. Pretty cool.







Saturday, 7-24-10:



Up early enough to see the sun rise and the water looked like glass. Jessica and I decided to fishing so we went to the store for our fishing worms.

Jessica fishing from her kayak. I stood on the bank and tried a little fishing while Jessica really enjoyed herself. I threw back all the ones I caught, just about the size to be called minnows. One of her fish dropped into her kayak and she let out a squeal. I wondered about trying to fish from kayak - you know, hooks and inflatable kayaks might not be a good mix!
After about an hour, we were getting hungry, so we headed back to the cabin for some breakfast. I thought surely Sharon would have us a four-course meal prepared, but she and Renee' were sleeping so peacefully. So, about 9:30 I fried bacon and eggs, instant grits, milk/OJ, pretty good breakfast. You even have to wash dishes in the mountains.
At 10:30 I was fishing from my kayak, pretty okay. If the water had less current, it may have been a little better - or maybe I need an anchor! Concentrating on not letting the hook accidentally hit the kayak, and trying to watch the cork and stay out it's way at the same time was rather challenging. Besides, the fish weren't biting and it was so hot. Sharon was in her kayak and Jessica was swimming all over the place. Naps would be coming up soon for sure.
Back on the porch, it was shady and a nice breeze was keeping me from melting in the heat. We were talking about lunch, and got the picnic table prepared for lunch. Marilyn and Seth came by and shortly after, my friend Barbara came. Sharon made up the hamburgers, and Seth agreed (promise I didn't threaten him) to start the charcoal and to cook. I hate to admit it, but since we had such a good chef, we decided to go ahead and cook the hamburgers and the hotdogs and the chicken wings - left overs were be just fine. Next time Seth might get a contract before taking on "starting the charcoal". We had the hotdogs, then the hamburgers. Marilyn brought some home grown tomatoes - yum. Barbara brought me some cherries, which I have never had and they are really good. (In fact, I brought some to work and am munching on them as I work on my blog.) Barbara came by to see how it was because she and some of her grandkids maybe are coming to camp in September and will be staying in #4. After lunch, Barbara had to leave.



Chef Seth lighting the charcoal. Sharon preparing the hamburger. On second thought, I believe that makes Sharon the chef! Sorry Seth, you have to be the chief cook.

Thought I would get some hints about how to use charcoal from Seth. Bottom line "you gotta be patient" - Marilyn heard that and laughed out loud - "Now you know where I got it from," she said to Seth. Okay, okay, I have to be patient! Let the fluid soak into the charcoal, then wait for the charcoal to turn grey, don't put the food on after the first few flames! I think I know how now, tune in to next camping entry, I'll let you know (unless Seth shows up - or somebody else offers to do the cooking)



After slaving over the hot grill in the 100 degree temps, Seth finally got to eat his lunch, poor baby. Really, THANKS much Seth, you made it a perfect meal.
Sharon washing her hands. We have a wash bowl and a rinse bowl.
Seth cleaning the grill (above and beyond, Seth!)

Nothing makes me happier than to see Renee' happy. Marilyn used my life vest - and - my shoes. Silly girl, she don't want to touch the scary things on the bottom of the lake. She commented on how the life vest gave her cleavage. I told her yeah, until you get old and then it gives you more crevices! Another funny memory.

Renee' and I sat under the trees while everyone went swimming. I heard a car pull in, and was surprised to see Mom and Dad. They came to see the place and agreed the road to the cabin really did feel like the mountains. Renee' entertained them while I went down to take a few pictures of everybody in the water.

They had already eaten so missed out on the delicious leftovers we had.

"The shoes"
A great day, I have to say! (I have more swimming photos, so will add later)
After everyone left, the four of us rested a little while. Then we decided to actually get in the lake. Renee' wore some shorts that Sharon brought, and just wore what I had on. Swimming will double as a washing machine and shower! We put on our life vests and had a wonderful time. Thank goodness Marilyn left my shoes, I had to wear them (silly me). Of course, Renee' wore her's.



"Come on Nae, we're going swimming" - I love to see her laughing and happy.



Renee' is showing me how to do it.



Renee' and me floating. I'm holding onto her hand for safety (mine!)
THE BEST TIME OF ALL !

We ate some leftovers when we got back. We were all too exhausted to play games. In fact, I don't even think there were any "goodnight john boys". Renee' and Sharon read their books for a short time, but Jessica and I were out in a second.

Sunday 7/25/10:

Slept until about 7:00, later than I planned, so I missed the first sunlight on the lake. After a cup of coffee, Jessica and I packed some junky snacks and water (my cigs), and took the kayaks out for over an hour. The water was like mirrors, the reflections perfect, it was beautiful. We saw a snake, at least that what I think it was, and according to Jessica it was big as one you might find in the jungle. She wanted to take a closer look, but it didn't take a lot of "come on Jesse, it might get in your kayak" before she paddled to catch up with me. I threw one of my black jelly beans in the water (not my favorite flavor). Jessica asked "what was that?" I said a black jelly bean. Well, I had about four wonderful jelly beans in my mouth and she so casually says, "You know Nana they make a jelly bean that is vomit flavor." If only I could swim! I may have tipped her over. I told her "Jessica, not while I've got them in my mouth!!" She said, "Oh sorry Nana, but they do." We laughed and continued with our memory making time.
After we got back, Sharon and I decided to go kayaking. Jessica was tired, so she and Renee' slept.
We would paddle a ways, float and drift, talk, and just sit. Eat animal cookies and jelly beans.
We were sitting in the shade near the bank, everything was so quiet, calm and peaceful. I told Sharon, 'You know sweetie, I can't believe my life is so good. After all the bad things, you know?" Sharon is not one to mince words and easily speaks her mind, and she said "You didn't have any way to go but up." "How true", I said, and "I've got to remember to write that in my journal". We both laughed - making more wonderful memories.

Sharon held the camera up and after a few tries, got a couple of neat pictures while we were kayaking.
We took our kayaks from the lake to the cabin. Jessica cut the watermelon and we ate. I can't beleive I forgot to get pictures. The watermelon was so sweet and juicy, no seeds.
We packed up the cars, Sharon swept the cabin. They took the trash to the dumpster while I turned in the key.
When I started camping, I also began a journal. Everyone wrote an entry (except Mom and Dad, I forgot to ask them; they left too soon), but the entries are just for me to read. I don't believe I will include them in my blog.
GREAT TIME EVERYBODY - Thanks so much for coming to see me and Renee' at our mountain home.